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[superbadgirl]

So I know superbadgirl is pretty boring but the other handles I wanted to use as a replacement for sbg (who would have thought there were so many Princesses of Ice?). *sigh* I still regret having to kick that one. The reason? Paranoia, primarily. I discovered a coworker checking my livejournal...which wouldn't be a big deal, but he also then poked around in my friends list. Yeah, yeah, I know this is why these things are out here. But the guy has told me again and again how disinterested he is in what I do online. Surrrrre, right. I suppose that after the first snide comment about Stargate porn, I should have clued in. But I didn't. The prying continued. He even tried to get me to tell him why I was visibly upset after hearing the news of my sister's adoption falling through, which, frankly, is none of his business. If I choose not to tell people why I'm upset...

Anyway, so that's the shortened story. It's hard to tell in words how creeped out I was/am by his behavior. Now I must limit my internet activities and LJ only from home. I hate when people put a crimp in my style. ;)

Comments

Icky

[moonshayde.livejournal.com]

On the one hand, when we post on journals online we run that risk. We have to walk that fine line of what we keep private and what is public. Anyone can read.

But still, that's just not right. Some people are just...ugh. You did the right thing.

Re: Icky

[superbadgirl]

I would have been fine if he had never insisted he didn't care about my life, then turn around and tease me every chance he got about where I went online...

Creep.

[innocent-lex.livejournal.com]

Ah yes, classic sign of someone with low self-esteem. Shame.

I make most of my LJ entries friends-only. Yes, it's sad and paranoid, but frankly I feel better that way. I trust my friends. And anyway, if I leave it friends-only, I can just natter away as if we were all getting together for tea and biccies.