Well.

[superbadgirl]

I finally figured something out today. The guy in #801 is very friendly and chatty to me when he's all alone. Normal conversation type stuff, nothing more. It's just that when he and his girlfriend (other occupant of #801) walk through the lobby together...he doesn't even glance at me or say hi when I say hi to both of them.

I find that very odd, and is it wrong that I automatically label it creep-attitude?

Hottie neighbor trotted by with a hottie friend today. Damnit.

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[superbadgirl]

Oh, not all of them do it. Hottie neighbor's hottie brother walks by with his girlfriend all the time, and is just as cheerful and chatty toward me as he ever is alone.

Maybe most guys expect women to be jealous over simple, silly things. That's not a good sign.

[betacandy.livejournal.com]

Hmm. I'm stunned every time a guy DOESN'T do that. Then again, I've had a shocking number of women get jealous and territorial around me, and all I can think is, "Oh, if only you knew what my chances of stealing your man would be if I DID try."

[superbadgirl]

Oh, geez, yeah. I'm no threat to anyone's girlfriend.

[betacandy.livejournal.com]

Me, neither. But they seem to perceive me as such.

Actually... I gotta post about this later, when I've sorted it out. I've been thinking lately.

[superbadgirl]

I tend to be more relaxed and comfortable around 'safe' guys - that is, guys who are taken and not interested. I suppose that might make the interaction seem more than it is to a girlfriend? I dunno.

[betacandy.livejournal.com]

It could. Who knows how people read things, really? Sometimes I even think it's that the guy actually DOES think you're cute and is overcompensating for fear she'll pick up on it.