I don't think he was thinking, really. J.'s a peculiar sort, and there are few in the family that would be able to stand putting him up just based on personality. We're all grown ups, and he might be on the inside, but he only exhibits the immaturity when we gather for holidays and such.

I haven't heard from my sis yet. She's way nicer than I am, so I'm guessing she'll say yes. I told her to make the guidelines and conditions of his stay VERY clear if she does go through with it.