The only thing I didn't verbalize in the above conversations is that last bit about him pissing me off. Everything else, I've said.

I dunno, seems pretty blunt to me. ;)

He also hasn't wondered why my response to his "what you doing tonight?" questions changed from noncommittal (am I the only one who hates when people ask what she's doing?) to "Oh, I'm doing this and this and THIS."