It's genuinely exhausting to be around her. I have a narcissist client too, and every interaction is being carefully logged to used as a weapon against you. The client, btw, said to me during our last interaction, "Remember four years ago when you told me to call someone else for more help? I was SO OFFENDED by that..."

No. No, I did not remember. You know why? I wasn't cataloging it for future use. And even if I had remembered, it sure sounds like I was offering a resource. Sheesh.

Anyway, that's how it's been with B for three straight years.