It's okay. It's really tough on my dad, he's as healthy as he can be at 82 and sharp as a tack. Just some typical memory slips.

Oh, it is both - the kittens seem to not know how to use the litterbox well yet, but the family also has no experience. Double whammy! Plus they have a strongwilled teenager in the house who has some ... incorrect ideas about cats that she won't steer from. LOL.